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I am looking for a word or phrase that portrays the feeling of watching an intimate (but not sexual) moment unfold.



Some context;
A is keeping a watchful eye on E because he is worried about her safety. In the process he realized that he was watching a really personal moment that maybe wasn’t right of him to witness



I know that being a voyeur is generally connected to the sexual gratification from watching - but A is particularly uncomfortable after.



“She (E) closed her eyes, reaching out her arms as if in an embrace and I (A) got the sudden sense of ______”










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    You want a word for the feeling of watching not the act of watching? Is it a positive feeling or a negative feeling that you're after? Perhaps you can include a sentence where you might use this word.

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    In the exact context you describe here, intruding (upon an intimate moment) would be a natural choice; but that doesn’t necessarily fit the actual concept you’re talking about, just the particular situation.

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I am looking for a word or phrase that portrays the feeling of watching an intimate (but not sexual) moment unfold.



Some context;
A is keeping a watchful eye on E because he is worried about her safety. In the process he realized that he was watching a really personal moment that maybe wasn’t right of him to witness



I know that being a voyeur is generally connected to the sexual gratification from watching - but A is particularly uncomfortable after.



“She (E) closed her eyes, reaching out her arms as if in an embrace and I (A) got the sudden sense of ______”










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    You want a word for the feeling of watching not the act of watching? Is it a positive feeling or a negative feeling that you're after? Perhaps you can include a sentence where you might use this word.

    – KillingTime
    2 hours ago






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    2 hours ago






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    In the exact context you describe here, intruding (upon an intimate moment) would be a natural choice; but that doesn’t necessarily fit the actual concept you’re talking about, just the particular situation.

    – Janus Bahs Jacquet
    2 hours ago














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I am looking for a word or phrase that portrays the feeling of watching an intimate (but not sexual) moment unfold.



Some context;
A is keeping a watchful eye on E because he is worried about her safety. In the process he realized that he was watching a really personal moment that maybe wasn’t right of him to witness



I know that being a voyeur is generally connected to the sexual gratification from watching - but A is particularly uncomfortable after.



“She (E) closed her eyes, reaching out her arms as if in an embrace and I (A) got the sudden sense of ______”










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I am looking for a word or phrase that portrays the feeling of watching an intimate (but not sexual) moment unfold.



Some context;
A is keeping a watchful eye on E because he is worried about her safety. In the process he realized that he was watching a really personal moment that maybe wasn’t right of him to witness



I know that being a voyeur is generally connected to the sexual gratification from watching - but A is particularly uncomfortable after.



“She (E) closed her eyes, reaching out her arms as if in an embrace and I (A) got the sudden sense of ______”







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  • 2





    You want a word for the feeling of watching not the act of watching? Is it a positive feeling or a negative feeling that you're after? Perhaps you can include a sentence where you might use this word.

    – KillingTime
    2 hours ago






  • 2





    Welcome to EL&U. Your Q is a little unclear. You need to provide more context, as well as a sample sentence with a blank in it for inserting the target language.

    – Cascabel
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  • Without additional info as requested in the comments, your Q. is already being proposed for closure because it is "Unclear what you're asking".

    – TrevorD
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  • @TrevorD I will get on that right now

    – Noellektrae
    2 hours ago






  • 1





    In the exact context you describe here, intruding (upon an intimate moment) would be a natural choice; but that doesn’t necessarily fit the actual concept you’re talking about, just the particular situation.

    – Janus Bahs Jacquet
    2 hours ago














  • 2





    You want a word for the feeling of watching not the act of watching? Is it a positive feeling or a negative feeling that you're after? Perhaps you can include a sentence where you might use this word.

    – KillingTime
    2 hours ago






  • 2





    Welcome to EL&U. Your Q is a little unclear. You need to provide more context, as well as a sample sentence with a blank in it for inserting the target language.

    – Cascabel
    2 hours ago











  • Without additional info as requested in the comments, your Q. is already being proposed for closure because it is "Unclear what you're asking".

    – TrevorD
    2 hours ago











  • @TrevorD I will get on that right now

    – Noellektrae
    2 hours ago






  • 1





    In the exact context you describe here, intruding (upon an intimate moment) would be a natural choice; but that doesn’t necessarily fit the actual concept you’re talking about, just the particular situation.

    – Janus Bahs Jacquet
    2 hours ago








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You want a word for the feeling of watching not the act of watching? Is it a positive feeling or a negative feeling that you're after? Perhaps you can include a sentence where you might use this word.

– KillingTime
2 hours ago





You want a word for the feeling of watching not the act of watching? Is it a positive feeling or a negative feeling that you're after? Perhaps you can include a sentence where you might use this word.

– KillingTime
2 hours ago




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Welcome to EL&U. Your Q is a little unclear. You need to provide more context, as well as a sample sentence with a blank in it for inserting the target language.

– Cascabel
2 hours ago





Welcome to EL&U. Your Q is a little unclear. You need to provide more context, as well as a sample sentence with a blank in it for inserting the target language.

– Cascabel
2 hours ago













Without additional info as requested in the comments, your Q. is already being proposed for closure because it is "Unclear what you're asking".

– TrevorD
2 hours ago





Without additional info as requested in the comments, your Q. is already being proposed for closure because it is "Unclear what you're asking".

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2 hours ago













@TrevorD I will get on that right now

– Noellektrae
2 hours ago





@TrevorD I will get on that right now

– Noellektrae
2 hours ago




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In the exact context you describe here, intruding (upon an intimate moment) would be a natural choice; but that doesn’t necessarily fit the actual concept you’re talking about, just the particular situation.

– Janus Bahs Jacquet
2 hours ago





In the exact context you describe here, intruding (upon an intimate moment) would be a natural choice; but that doesn’t necessarily fit the actual concept you’re talking about, just the particular situation.

– Janus Bahs Jacquet
2 hours ago










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The most obvious word in this particular situation would be



Embarrassment - A feeling of self-consciousness, shame, or awkwardness.






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  • I guess, it perfect fits the requirement. Good choice :) +1

    – Ubi hatt
    2 hours ago






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    Too few characters to edit, but the word is misspelled!

    – chrylis
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I got a sudden sense of shame



Oxford Dictionaries:





  1. a painful feeling of humiliation or distress caused by the consciousness of wrong or foolish behavior.




Seeing that intimate moment made you think it was wrong or foolish of you to be watching her like that. You felt ashamed.






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  • How can it be a shame? Choice was not conscious. He never intended to watch her in that situation.

    – Ubi hatt
    2 hours ago






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    @Ubihatt - He did decide to watch her. He may not have considered that watching her might have included the incident he just witnessed. In retrospect he's thinking he should have known better. He is conscious of his "now realized as wrong or foolish" behavior.

    – Jim
    1 hour ago











  • He was just constantly watching her. His intention was to keep a watch on her for her safety. In that moment, she started embracing herself. So, while keeping a watch on her not knowing what her next move/action might be. He simply felt Embarrassed that he should not watch her in that situation. He wasn't ogling her, but just keep watchful eye on her.

    – Ubi hatt
    1 hour ago













  • @Ubihatt - I agree. What's your point? I'd point out that the answer you upvoted has shame as part of its definition.

    – Jim
    1 hour ago











  • i.e. you step-in in someone else's room while they are changing, may give you feeling of embarrassment. Why you will feel shame? It wasn't intentional.

    – Ubi hatt
    1 hour ago



















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I think 'intrusion' would work for your sentence:



“Sarah closed her eyes, reaching out her arms as if in an embrace and I got the sudden sense of intrusion”.






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    The most obvious word in this particular situation would be



    Embarrassment - A feeling of self-consciousness, shame, or awkwardness.






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    • I guess, it perfect fits the requirement. Good choice :) +1

      – Ubi hatt
      2 hours ago






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      Too few characters to edit, but the word is misspelled!

      – chrylis
      46 mins ago
















    3














    The most obvious word in this particular situation would be



    Embarrassment - A feeling of self-consciousness, shame, or awkwardness.






    share|improve this answer


























    • I guess, it perfect fits the requirement. Good choice :) +1

      – Ubi hatt
      2 hours ago






    • 1





      Too few characters to edit, but the word is misspelled!

      – chrylis
      46 mins ago














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    The most obvious word in this particular situation would be



    Embarrassment - A feeling of self-consciousness, shame, or awkwardness.






    share|improve this answer















    The most obvious word in this particular situation would be



    Embarrassment - A feeling of self-consciousness, shame, or awkwardness.







    share|improve this answer














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    • I guess, it perfect fits the requirement. Good choice :) +1

      – Ubi hatt
      2 hours ago






    • 1





      Too few characters to edit, but the word is misspelled!

      – chrylis
      46 mins ago



















    • I guess, it perfect fits the requirement. Good choice :) +1

      – Ubi hatt
      2 hours ago






    • 1





      Too few characters to edit, but the word is misspelled!

      – chrylis
      46 mins ago

















    I guess, it perfect fits the requirement. Good choice :) +1

    – Ubi hatt
    2 hours ago





    I guess, it perfect fits the requirement. Good choice :) +1

    – Ubi hatt
    2 hours ago




    1




    1





    Too few characters to edit, but the word is misspelled!

    – chrylis
    46 mins ago





    Too few characters to edit, but the word is misspelled!

    – chrylis
    46 mins ago













    1














    I got a sudden sense of shame



    Oxford Dictionaries:





    1. a painful feeling of humiliation or distress caused by the consciousness of wrong or foolish behavior.




    Seeing that intimate moment made you think it was wrong or foolish of you to be watching her like that. You felt ashamed.






    share|improve this answer
























    • How can it be a shame? Choice was not conscious. He never intended to watch her in that situation.

      – Ubi hatt
      2 hours ago






    • 1





      @Ubihatt - He did decide to watch her. He may not have considered that watching her might have included the incident he just witnessed. In retrospect he's thinking he should have known better. He is conscious of his "now realized as wrong or foolish" behavior.

      – Jim
      1 hour ago











    • He was just constantly watching her. His intention was to keep a watch on her for her safety. In that moment, she started embracing herself. So, while keeping a watch on her not knowing what her next move/action might be. He simply felt Embarrassed that he should not watch her in that situation. He wasn't ogling her, but just keep watchful eye on her.

      – Ubi hatt
      1 hour ago













    • @Ubihatt - I agree. What's your point? I'd point out that the answer you upvoted has shame as part of its definition.

      – Jim
      1 hour ago











    • i.e. you step-in in someone else's room while they are changing, may give you feeling of embarrassment. Why you will feel shame? It wasn't intentional.

      – Ubi hatt
      1 hour ago
















    1














    I got a sudden sense of shame



    Oxford Dictionaries:





    1. a painful feeling of humiliation or distress caused by the consciousness of wrong or foolish behavior.




    Seeing that intimate moment made you think it was wrong or foolish of you to be watching her like that. You felt ashamed.






    share|improve this answer
























    • How can it be a shame? Choice was not conscious. He never intended to watch her in that situation.

      – Ubi hatt
      2 hours ago






    • 1





      @Ubihatt - He did decide to watch her. He may not have considered that watching her might have included the incident he just witnessed. In retrospect he's thinking he should have known better. He is conscious of his "now realized as wrong or foolish" behavior.

      – Jim
      1 hour ago











    • He was just constantly watching her. His intention was to keep a watch on her for her safety. In that moment, she started embracing herself. So, while keeping a watch on her not knowing what her next move/action might be. He simply felt Embarrassed that he should not watch her in that situation. He wasn't ogling her, but just keep watchful eye on her.

      – Ubi hatt
      1 hour ago













    • @Ubihatt - I agree. What's your point? I'd point out that the answer you upvoted has shame as part of its definition.

      – Jim
      1 hour ago











    • i.e. you step-in in someone else's room while they are changing, may give you feeling of embarrassment. Why you will feel shame? It wasn't intentional.

      – Ubi hatt
      1 hour ago














    1












    1








    1







    I got a sudden sense of shame



    Oxford Dictionaries:





    1. a painful feeling of humiliation or distress caused by the consciousness of wrong or foolish behavior.




    Seeing that intimate moment made you think it was wrong or foolish of you to be watching her like that. You felt ashamed.






    share|improve this answer













    I got a sudden sense of shame



    Oxford Dictionaries:





    1. a painful feeling of humiliation or distress caused by the consciousness of wrong or foolish behavior.




    Seeing that intimate moment made you think it was wrong or foolish of you to be watching her like that. You felt ashamed.







    share|improve this answer












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    • How can it be a shame? Choice was not conscious. He never intended to watch her in that situation.

      – Ubi hatt
      2 hours ago






    • 1





      @Ubihatt - He did decide to watch her. He may not have considered that watching her might have included the incident he just witnessed. In retrospect he's thinking he should have known better. He is conscious of his "now realized as wrong or foolish" behavior.

      – Jim
      1 hour ago











    • He was just constantly watching her. His intention was to keep a watch on her for her safety. In that moment, she started embracing herself. So, while keeping a watch on her not knowing what her next move/action might be. He simply felt Embarrassed that he should not watch her in that situation. He wasn't ogling her, but just keep watchful eye on her.

      – Ubi hatt
      1 hour ago













    • @Ubihatt - I agree. What's your point? I'd point out that the answer you upvoted has shame as part of its definition.

      – Jim
      1 hour ago











    • i.e. you step-in in someone else's room while they are changing, may give you feeling of embarrassment. Why you will feel shame? It wasn't intentional.

      – Ubi hatt
      1 hour ago



















    • How can it be a shame? Choice was not conscious. He never intended to watch her in that situation.

      – Ubi hatt
      2 hours ago






    • 1





      @Ubihatt - He did decide to watch her. He may not have considered that watching her might have included the incident he just witnessed. In retrospect he's thinking he should have known better. He is conscious of his "now realized as wrong or foolish" behavior.

      – Jim
      1 hour ago











    • He was just constantly watching her. His intention was to keep a watch on her for her safety. In that moment, she started embracing herself. So, while keeping a watch on her not knowing what her next move/action might be. He simply felt Embarrassed that he should not watch her in that situation. He wasn't ogling her, but just keep watchful eye on her.

      – Ubi hatt
      1 hour ago













    • @Ubihatt - I agree. What's your point? I'd point out that the answer you upvoted has shame as part of its definition.

      – Jim
      1 hour ago











    • i.e. you step-in in someone else's room while they are changing, may give you feeling of embarrassment. Why you will feel shame? It wasn't intentional.

      – Ubi hatt
      1 hour ago

















    How can it be a shame? Choice was not conscious. He never intended to watch her in that situation.

    – Ubi hatt
    2 hours ago





    How can it be a shame? Choice was not conscious. He never intended to watch her in that situation.

    – Ubi hatt
    2 hours ago




    1




    1





    @Ubihatt - He did decide to watch her. He may not have considered that watching her might have included the incident he just witnessed. In retrospect he's thinking he should have known better. He is conscious of his "now realized as wrong or foolish" behavior.

    – Jim
    1 hour ago





    @Ubihatt - He did decide to watch her. He may not have considered that watching her might have included the incident he just witnessed. In retrospect he's thinking he should have known better. He is conscious of his "now realized as wrong or foolish" behavior.

    – Jim
    1 hour ago













    He was just constantly watching her. His intention was to keep a watch on her for her safety. In that moment, she started embracing herself. So, while keeping a watch on her not knowing what her next move/action might be. He simply felt Embarrassed that he should not watch her in that situation. He wasn't ogling her, but just keep watchful eye on her.

    – Ubi hatt
    1 hour ago







    He was just constantly watching her. His intention was to keep a watch on her for her safety. In that moment, she started embracing herself. So, while keeping a watch on her not knowing what her next move/action might be. He simply felt Embarrassed that he should not watch her in that situation. He wasn't ogling her, but just keep watchful eye on her.

    – Ubi hatt
    1 hour ago















    @Ubihatt - I agree. What's your point? I'd point out that the answer you upvoted has shame as part of its definition.

    – Jim
    1 hour ago





    @Ubihatt - I agree. What's your point? I'd point out that the answer you upvoted has shame as part of its definition.

    – Jim
    1 hour ago













    i.e. you step-in in someone else's room while they are changing, may give you feeling of embarrassment. Why you will feel shame? It wasn't intentional.

    – Ubi hatt
    1 hour ago





    i.e. you step-in in someone else's room while they are changing, may give you feeling of embarrassment. Why you will feel shame? It wasn't intentional.

    – Ubi hatt
    1 hour ago











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    I think 'intrusion' would work for your sentence:



    “Sarah closed her eyes, reaching out her arms as if in an embrace and I got the sudden sense of intrusion”.






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      I think 'intrusion' would work for your sentence:



      “Sarah closed her eyes, reaching out her arms as if in an embrace and I got the sudden sense of intrusion”.






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        I think 'intrusion' would work for your sentence:



        “Sarah closed her eyes, reaching out her arms as if in an embrace and I got the sudden sense of intrusion”.






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        I think 'intrusion' would work for your sentence:



        “Sarah closed her eyes, reaching out her arms as if in an embrace and I got the sudden sense of intrusion”.







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